The notion of possessing someone or something is a misconception. You can never truly own a person or thing. You can only experience them. This is the essence of the virtual world, and it is also the essence of zero-space. 
The Secret of Our World: This World is a Virtual World. 
When something negative happens, you have two choices:1: You can get caught up in it and throw a tantrum.2: You can observe yourself and your relationship to the situation from a third-person perspective, stay calm, and look for potential solutions.These are two different energy levels.
All the people and events that have happened in life are like the wind in the air, making you feel something but then disappearing without a trace. Zero is our constant state.
In the vastness of space, everything is just an aggregation of information. It gathers in one moment and disperses in the next, just like the people you pass by on the street. One moment you bump into each other, the next you're gone, and maybe you'll never see each other again for a million years. 
The person you're always looking for is always the wrong one, because you can only meet people who are on the same frequency as you. 
Transforming our consciousness is the fundamental key to solving all problems. This transformation implies that our current human thought patterns might be leading us in the wrong direction. 
Our environment is full of conflict and confrontation, which is a manifestation of low energy. Peace is the most powerful force.
We enter the world with nothing and leave with nothing. Nothing material can be taken with us. Letting go of our attachments to possessions and desires is the first step towards true freedom. 
Let go of attachment to money and career, but work hard. This is a different mindset to face life.